Welcome to Temple Emanu-El
If you’re new here, we’re so glad you found us.
People come to Temple Emanu-El for many reasons. Some are looking for a place to pray or find community. Others are exploring Judaism for the first time or visiting for a family celebration. Whatever brings you here, we want you to feel comfortable, supported, and welcome.
Start Here
Choose the description that best fits your reason for visiting:
I’m Visiting for the First Time
Whether you’re attending a bar or bat mitzvah, a wedding, or simply curious, this page will help you feel prepared and welcome.
I’m a New Member and I Want to Get More Involved
Already joined and want to feel even more connected? Learn about the many ways you can participate and build community.
I’m Thinking About Joining
Membership connects you to services, classes, clergy, and community. Learn more about taking the next step.
I’m Attending a Holiday or Life-Cycle Event
Find out what to expect at services, holidays, funerals, and other gatherings so you can participate with confidence.
I’m Exploring Conversion
If you’re considering becoming Jewish, we offer guidance, learning, and support. Read about the process at our temple.
I’m Not Jewish but I’m Interested
You don’t have to be Jewish to feel at home here. Whether you’re here with a partner, raising Jewish children, or learning more, this page is for you.
What You’ll Find Here
- A welcoming space for everyone
- Worship rooted in Jewish tradition and open to all
- Learning opportunities for children, teens, and adults
- A strong commitment to community, justice, and care
Still Have Questions?
Membership Department
If you would like to speak with someone from the Membership Department, please call the 212-507-9514 or email membership@emanuelnyc.org.
Speak with a Member
If you would like to speak with a temple member from our Membership Committee, please call the membership office or complete our Outreach Form.
I’m Visiting for the First Time
We’re glad you’re here. Whether you’re attending a bar or bat mitzvah, a Shabbat service, or simply exploring, you are always welcome at Temple Emanu-El.
What to Expect at Worship Services
- Worship ervices are open to everyone. You do not need to be Jewish or a member to attend. Please note, however, that membership and tickets are required to attend services for Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur.
- You’ll be greeted when you arrive. If you’re unsure where to go, just ask.
- There are no assigned seats; sit wherever you feel comfortable.
- Our prayer books include English translations and transliterations of Hebrew, so you can follow along. You can sing or just listen.
What to Wear to a Synagogue
We suggest business casual attire, though some guests dress more formally for Shabbat or holiday services.
Kippot (yarmulkes or skullcaps) are optional for both men and women. Tallitot (prayer shawls) are also optional and are generally worn only by Jewish adults. Both can be found in the sanctuary lobby.
When attending a life-cycle event (such as a wedding or bar/bat mitzvah), you might dress a bit more formally; think what you would wear to a nice dinner or special occasion.
I’m a New Member and I Want to Get More Involved
Welcome! We’re so glad you’re part of our community. Becoming a member is just the beginning of your journey at Temple Emanu-El.
If you’re looking to deepen your connection, here are some great ways to get involved:
- Attend Shabbat and holiday services. It’s one of the best ways to feel at home and meet fellow members.
- Join a class or discussion group. We offer learning opportunities for all ages and interests, from Torah study to social justice workshops.
- Volunteer. Help with social action projects, greet at services, or support community events.
- Participate in community groups. Whether you’re a young professional, a parent, or a long-time New Yorker, there’s a group for you.
- Connect with clergy and staff. Reach out to let us know your interests. We’re here to help you find your place.
If you’re not sure where to start, we invite you to join us for an upcoming service or event and introduce yourself or send us a note. We’d love to help you find the activities and connections that feel most meaningful to you.
I’m Thinking About Joining
Temple Emanu-El is a large community that feels like a close-knit home. People join us for many reasons: spiritual connection, learning, friendships, social justice work, and more.
As a member, you’ll have access to:
- Our clergy for life-cycle moments and spiritual support
- Weekly worship services, holiday celebrations, and special programs
- Learning opportunities for all ages
- A network of people who care deeply
We invite you to attend a Shabbat worship service or reach out to our Membership Department for a conversation. There’s no pressure, just an open door.
I’m Attending a Holiday or Life-Cycle Event
Whether you’re here for a bar or bat mitzvah, a baby naming, a wedding, a funeral, or a holiday celebration, we’re here to help make your visit smooth and meaningful.
What to Expect
- You’ll be greeted when you arrive. Let someone know if you’re new.
- Our prayer books have translations and transliterations, so you can follow along or just listen and enjoy.
- You are not expected to know Hebrew or Jewish customs in advance.
- Food, if served, will be kosher-style (no pork or shellfish, and no meat and dairy on the same plate). A kiddush or oneg is a reception following services, ranging from challah and fruit to a full meal.
- There is no strict dress code. Business casual to semi-formal is typical for services and celebrations, but you won’t be out of place in jeans and a polo shirt or t-shirt.
If you have any questions or feel unsure, please don’t hesitate to contact us. We want you to feel at ease and included.
I’m Exploring Conversion
We are honored to walk with you on your journey. People explore Judaism for many reasons: connection to Jewish values, family ties, or a desire to join the Jewish people.
Our conversion path includes:
- Regular meetings with a rabbi
- A course in Jewish history, holidays, texts, and ethics
- Participation in worship and community life
- A conversion ceremony, guided by tradition, including immersion in a mikveh
Begin Your Journey
Before contacting our rabbi to begin your journey, we recommend reading Choosing a Jewish Life, Revised and Updated: A Handbook for People Converting to Judaism and for Their Family and Friends by Anita Diamant as well as learning more about Reform Judaism on ReformJudaism.org.
If you’re interested in pursuing conversion or learning more about the process, please email discoveringjudaism@emanuelnyc.org with your name, contact information and a brief explanation of why you are interested in exploring conversion to Judaism.
You may also choose to explore some additional resources to familiarize yourself with the basics of Judaism and conversion.
You don’t need to know everything to begin; you just need the desire to learn and an open heart.
I’m Not Jewish but I’m Interested
Temple Emanu-El is home to many interfaith families, partners of Jews, parents raising Jewish children, and people who are simply interested in Jewish life.
You are welcome to:
- Attend services and programs
- Enroll your children in our nursery school
- Ask questions and learn without pressure or judgment
- Be as involved as you feel comfortable
If you’re unsure where to start, we recommend joining us for a Shabbat service or one of our public programs. Or reach out, we would love to meet you.
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